Hi guys, gals and everything in between.
My quest to be the world’s best submissive has hit a little snag, with yet another bedtime infraction… fear not, though, for today is another day, and I have a good feeling about it.
I’ve started the day, as usual with my medication task (a contraceptive and a whole bunch of vitamins, to keep me healthy) and I’m currently working through the rest of my list, starting with working on my daily education.
I complete half an hour of virtual learning per day, across two different language subjects, and one written task to finish off daily education. This has been invaluable during the various lockdowns, as it keeps me focused and gives me something to fill my time with.
Most of my daily tasks are focused on personal development, as this is very important to me. It would be nice to have a task list full of fun, sexy little things to do, but having tasks to increase my knowledge, keep me healthy and keep me on the straight and narrow will be far more rewarding in the long term…
It’s not all work and no play though, as our use of the obedience app enables Daddy to set points for each task I complete, and I can spend those points on rewards. Sadly, at the moment, most of these rewards are impossible, due to pandemic restrictions, but this will all be over soon, and I will be able to reap the benefits of being such a good girl.
Overall, I would recommend mixing in a little daily development to your routine. I have previously had dominants that didn’t have the discipline to set daily tasks at all, and dominants that could only really set tasks that focused on sexual gratification, but in my opinion and experience, the most fulfilling result is when you go on a daily journey of self improvement, with a dominant there to support and encourage you all the way.
It can be tough to ask for this, I completely understand that because I’ve been there, but the number one thing that all subs should remember is that we are far more powerful than we think. In the initial stages of finding a Dom, don’t be afraid to ask questions, carry yourself with confidence, be inquisitive, and ask what your Dom’s responsibilities will be, as well as your own. If you want loyalty, ask for it. If you want exclusivity, ask for it. If you want to set limits, do it. If you want personal development in your daily tasks, ask for it.
The worst they can say is no, and if they say no, there’s a very good chance you’d be better off with someone who respects what you and your submission are worth.
Make a dominant EARN your submission, and don’t be afraid to walk away from the negotiating table if you aren’t seeing an offer that benefits you. You only have one life, so don’t waste it on dominants that can’t fulfil you or offer you the guidance you need to become the best submissive you can be.
Aqua x
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